I Will Go Down With This Ship

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Do you follow any TV shows, movies, or artists religiously?

I can honestly say that I do. I do follow TV series, musician and youtubers and have the constant craving got know everything about it every time.

And I have come to the realisation that it is NOT healthy.

Sure, you will have some positive impact from doing so. For instance, you have more "social points" for knowing cool stuff that goes on the media. But learning from the hard way, I now know some of the negative impact too.

You will have the addiction to check constantly on them.
Read that sentence one more time. Do you realise how creepy that is? You are basically turning yourself into a stalker. You are turning into a creeper.

They will not know you.
Even if they reply to your comments and tweets or they favorited your tweets, they are not going to be your friend. You probably talk online but offline you are just some stranger that they never know.

You will have less time to do anything else more useful.
If it is an artist, I bet you will watch every single movie and works that they are featured in, listen to every single song, watch all the performances and the interviews. If it is a youtuber, you will watch all of their videos, even the ones you have watch for a thousand times.

You will watch every single episode from all seasons. On top of that, you will check up on all the social media. That will take about 10 hours of your day (plus 8 hours of sleep, 2 hours of showers, you only have 4 hours left?)

Your feels would be largely affected by all the fandoms, ships, the OTPs and the fan-fiction.
If you have NO IDEA on any of the words above, please leave. It is not too late. You still have hopes.

You will forget reality.
You will just forget. I do.

The list goes on...and I am sure you know it.

So, which TV shows or artist, musician, or youtuber you fangirl on? Which fandoms do you belong to? Who is your number 1 OTP?

Let's all dive in the comment section below! 

5 Activities To Do for Summer and/or Winter Holidays

Hey guys! I'm doing a challenge from ultimateblogchallenge and I will be posting everyday of the month so I hope you guys will be enjoying everything with me (X)

Hello again!

As we all know, now is the summer break for everyone in the northern hemisphere. However, all our southern hemisphere friends are enjoying their winter holidays right now. Therefore, I come up with 5 activities that can be enjoyed by both of you who live in the southern or northern hemisphere.

1. Go to the mountains

Hiking would be a great activity to enjoy in the summer. It will be really nice to have a change of scenery every once in a while. One way to relax yourself is to go see, enjoy and mix with nature. Also, you get to exercise, talk about having fun and be healthy at the same time :)

In winter, you can go to the mountain for the same purpose but it's a different kind of scenery. You get to enjoy the coldness, the snow and go skiing! You still can still enjoy the nature, go outside and do something even if it's cold.

2. Go volunteer

Rather than spending your 3 months summer holiday doing nothing important, try volunteering! There are loads of different institutes that offers volunteering services to areas in your country or in other countries in need.

You can experience new foreign cultures, do loads of things for a good cause, open your mind and get away from the coldness in winter times.

3. Working a.k.a. saving up money for future happiness

Now, you might think that it is absolute bogus to work when everyone else is enjoying their time in the sun and/or cozying at home by the fire. Before all that, imagine what it would be like to have money by winter and spring break without working too hard on the start of school year. You want that, don't you?

You don't have to work non-stop on ridiculous hours but a little bit of working here and there will not hurt. As long as you can divide your time between work and having fun, you will still live a balance and fun holiday mode life. Other tip: try working on something that interests you!

4. Learn something new 

Take up something that you have always been wanting to learn from a long time. Make your childhood dreams come true! Whether it is knitting, gardening, cooking, learning new languages, or even learning a new unrelated school subjects because you are interested - You choose! Not only it takes up time but the result will help you a lot in life.

or if you are just lazy and you do not want to move...EVER. You can always do this one:

5. Sit at home and surf the internet until you are bored and decided to do something

(hopefully one of these suggestions!)

These are just a couple of things you can do! Do share other ideas down in the comment and share your plan for the remaining holiday time :)

Welcome Back to The Real World

Have you ever slip into your own imagination?

Most of the time, you imagine yourself in different situation and make everything as realistic as possible. You would imagine all the good things that you want to happen to you.

You do that because you want to believe that you can achieve what you want. You will be able to achieve what you dream. You have hope, you dream and you believe in it. And then the dream will come true.

But sometimes you can't help it when a little nudge of reality slips in the way of your imagination. See, in this case you're not being truly pessimistic about anything but you consider other alternatives. Being a realist, you would consider all the possible alternative, good or bad.

And then you just realise that the negative things that you imagine might come true. No, you don't want it to be true. But you acknowledge the chance of those happening.

Then your imagination just slips away because you don't want anything ruin your so called "perfect world".

Welcome back to the real world.

What You Hate is What You Love

It's funny how people change so drastically even when you think you them so well. Most of the time, they change to become the those people who they used to hate.

Is it just a biased view from our side that distort the image of them? Or are they really becoming 'those people'?

Or are we the one who changed in the first place?

I remember you hate people who are so full of them self. You mocked them around and you really showed it to them.

You used to be so sarcastic when people are being ignorant or arrogant around you. To be honest, it was really funny how they thought you like them when in reality you hated them to guts.

I remember when you hated people with lots of bullshits. If anything, you could be one of the anti bullshit campaign agent or something.

I remember when you despised people who are living in the clouds without looking at the people around us. I remember when you hated glamour, extravagant and over-the-top lifestyle.

I remember when you were a genuine person. You like them if you like them and hate them if you do so. You were never a two-face.

I remember when I thought we were on the same page.
I remember when I thought I knew you so well.

Funny how you change so fast from who I remember you were - who I thought you were - to someone who you used to hate. (or at least I thought you hated)

Funny how these days you did all the things you did not approve in the past.
It's funny how you did not realise...

People say: What you hate is what you love

How could I be so foolish? It's really funny how I always thought I knew you.

I really don't; never did and will not ever try again.

Life Happens, Life Begins, Life is...

Life happens when you are busy making other plans. Life begins when you are 21, or 16, or 18, or even 40. Life happens when you appreciate little things in life. When did life begin?

Life begins when you open your eyes in the morning. Be it on your own or with someone you love the most. It continues as you drag your feet to the bathroom and through until you reach your workplace or your school.

It begins when you realize you have to do this everyday, doing something that you do not enjoy. However, it happens when you see the faces of your significant other, your children, or your parents. At that moment you realize that you are doing this not only for yourself but also for them. For the people you love the most, to put that beautiful smile on them. It happens when you smile at the thought of them and the thought of them drives you, on and on.

It begins when you come back home. To the arms of the people you love and arms of people who love you. You realize that they will always be there for you. They will accept you in any condition; your best and your worst and everything in between. They will support you to do what is right and they will guide you to the light. That is the moment when your life begins.

It happens when you are tired and fed up with all the routines, all the problems and obstacles that will never go away from your sight or your mind. It happens when you are annoyed with your schoolmate, dorm mate, or fellow workers. It happens when you are rejected and down. You realize that life will never be pretty with flowers and unicorns all the time. You realize that movies will not be real life, even the ones based on true stories and such.

That is when life begins and when life happens. Life is every time you open your eyes and it will never stop even when you close your eyes every night.

Life is present, life is now;

It Is What It Is

It is what it is - because of me. I am not perfect, as you know, nobody is or ever will be. I have done wrong in the past and I admit it. I have been horrible for so long. I acknowledge it. I was the one who were afraid and I was the one who went away. I was really hot and cold, the one who were always unsure. But to be honest, I tried. I tried to make it worked. I put my effort into it and I put myself out there. You know I would never do that to anyone, but I did. I tried to put my trust in it. Again, you know I would not do that easy but I did it anyway. And I am thankful that I did. 

It is what it is - because of you. You tried beautifully hard and put everything in it. You are pretty much a perfection. You are everything everyone will ask for. I was just so very lucky that I crossed path with you and got the opportunity to spend my life with you. And nobody can stop it from happening, nobody can stop you. You find what the world can offer you and you know you can reach to the top of whatever it is you are aiming to. You find the place where you belong, you find a new home. You are growing - from a little piece of perfection to someone much much more bigger and powerful. To someone who knows where to belong and know what it is to be a perfection. And I am thankful that you did. 

It is what it is - because of us. Because we met, we talked and we interacted. Because we grow and we develop together. Because we figure out the world together; or at least we tried to figure it all out together. Because we share the moments and we share whatever it is we wanted to share. Because we made it that way and now we let it be this way.

It is what it is - because I hope. Because you hope. Because you are and because I am.